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We Are Us - Laura Goodwin founded this BDSM support group. This essay gives some interesting points on the acceptance and understanding about the lifestyle that has begun in society as well as the fact that what we do is as normal to us as vanilla sex is to non players and more. (Added on: 06/04/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

Reasonable Limits - An article from Laura Goodwin about BDSMers using commin sense in a predominantly vanilla world. (Added on: 06/04/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

CBT - Another fun essay from Laura Goodwin. This time, an account of some real life play that she and her (Added on: 06/04/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

Into BDSM = Easy? No. - An essay from Laura Goodwin on the topic of people within the BDSM community attempting to meet and actually court each other. (Added on: 06/04/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

The Gangsters Upstairs - An essay from Laura Goodwin with some very interesting perceptions about the world we live in. This is a great piece for some ideas about what is real and what is fantasy. (Perhaps compare the (Added on: 06/04/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

Guys - An essay by Laura Goodwin with some thoughts on the evolution of men. (Added on: 06/04/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

Cruisin' for a bruisin - Some different ways of phrasing an age old expression! (Added on: 06/04/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

Love Is A Deep Dark Pit - A really great essay on the views of love and finding your path within it. Use these principles in your BDSM life and in other aspects as well! :-) (Added on: 06/04/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

We Are Us: Laws, Rules and Taboos - Laura Goodwin's column, this issue talking about BDSM with relation to certain prohibitory laws and stipulations. (Added on: 05/26/2000; Source: Leather Online)

Leather Sex - The following sections of Leathersex have been chosen because I feel they are wonderful educational resources about the history and traditions of the Leather community. Even though these are written from the gay male perspective, I believe these articles offer some much needed answers to the questions "Where do we come from?" and "Why do we do what we do?" (Added on: 05/26/2000; Source: Leather Online)

We Are Us: Pride And Prejudice - This deals with the mental well being of leatherfolk everywhere who often condemn themselves in private based on their BDSM fantasies. Gives you excellent information on why pride is necessary for survival as well as ways to build it. A refreshing read, to be sure! (Added on: 05/14/2000; Source: Laura Goodwin's Site)

Why Do We Participate In Sadomasochism (S/M)? - A thoughtful dissertation on why we do what we do. By Keith L. Kendrick R.N,C.H. (Added on: 05/14/2000; Source: About.Com)

Search For A BDSM Munch Near You! - Similar to the Group Index database, our Munch database contains information on over 300 munches, dinners and social events around the world. Requires Java 1.0.2 (Added on: 05/12/2000; Source: About.Com)

Help An Outsider Understand Us - An ongoing discussion which you can participate in to help a non BDSM'er understand the difference between a BDSM perv and the real slavery situations throughout history. (Added on: 05/12/2000; Source: About.Com)

Creative Toy Sources - More ideas on how you can pick up toys in vanilla shops! Playing creatively on a budget! (Added on: 05/05/2000; Source: Society Of Janus Website)

The Bargain Dungeon - Some general ideas on where to pick up toys and dungeon supplies on a budget! (Added on: 05/05/2000; Source: A BDSM Lifestyle Page)

SM VS Abuse - From Jay Wiseman's SM 101, an examination of the differences between BDSM and abuse along with a list of warning signs and an explanation of the (Added on: 05/05/2000; Source: Greenery Press Reading)

Is BDSM Abuse? - (Located inside the safety section of this link)No, says this writer. An article that focuses on consent as the key. Includes an intersting example of a stranger disciplining your child. (Added on: 05/05/2000; Source: BDSM DC/MD/VA Metro)

Views Of A Novice Sub - Views on different topics from an ongoing column through the eyes of a "novice sub". (Added on: 03/24/2000; Source: BDSM Life)